Finding Your Way Home: A Soul Survival Kit by Melody Beattie
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Finding Your Way Home: A Soul Survival Kit

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Melody Beattie

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“Melody Beattie gives you the tools to discover the magnificence and splendor of your being.” — Deepak Chopra, author of Jesus and Buddha

“Beattie understands being overboard, which helps her throw bestselling lifelines to those still adrift.” — Time magazine

From the New York Times bestselling author of Codependent No More, The Language of Letting Go, Journey to the Heart, Choices, and Stop Being Mean to Yourself, comes Finding Your Way Home: a soul-searching book, with true stories and take-action exercises, designed to help foster a sense of “home” and personal spirituality.

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ISBN-10

0062511181

ISBN-13

978-0062511188

Print length

288 pages

Language

English

Publisher

HarperOne

Publication date

May 17, 2010

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5.31 x 0.65 x 8 inches

Item weight

10.4 ounces


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0062511181

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699 KB

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From Publishers Weekly

In 1986, Beattie's Codependent No More spoke with a previously unheard voice, naming and describing a dysfunctional way of living that many people identified with but that had never before been publicly acknowledged or understood. Breaking that new ground made the book a bestseller and something of a cultural phenomenon. The author of several books since then (Stop Being Mean to Yourself, etc.), Beattie covers only familiar ground in this digest of the most popular New Age spirituality writings of the past decade. Using eight "doctrines," 12 "remedies" and many "activities," visualizations and "mantras" (ordinary self-help affirmations), she addresses the search for "who we are and who our souls want to be," the power of thoughts and words, chakras, intuition, electromagnetic waves of energy, synchronicity, the clearing of emotions, angels, the quest for God within oneself and the ability to work "with the powers of the universe to cocreate what is desirable and necessary and in our highest good." As always, she personalizes her topics by writing autobiographically, but here in an often vague and general way, and only rarely crediting the sources (which readers of New Age and self-help books will immediately recognize) of her ideas, seeming to imply that they are original. Beattie's writing style is far more polished than it was in 1986, but her message this time lags behind, rather than pushing ahead, of those espoused by many others. $40,000 ad/promo; author tour.

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From Library Journal

Popular self-help author Beattie (e.g., Stop Being Mean to Yourself, LJ 6/15/97) again captures the zeitgeist with this combination narrative/toolkit for discovering emotional and spiritual power. Beattie bills herself as a "spiritual journalist" who tunes into stories dominating the emotional landscape. About finding your way home, says Beattie, "It's an idea emanating from the soul, from the deeper part of us, an idea that's found its time." Part 1 lays the groundwork. In Part 2, Beattie outlines eight basic beliefs to remember for staying on track. The third section encompasses 12 remedies, i.e., actions to take when pitfalls appear. Throughout, Beattie includes stories from her own journey, plus activities, journal entries, mantras, prayers, and visualizations to expand personal growth while offering understanding, comfort, and challenge. Recommended for public libraries, especially where self-help, 12-step, and Beattie's prior books have large followings.?B.J.M. Salovaara, Chicago P.L.

Copyright 1998 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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“Melody Beattie gives you the tools to discover the magnificence and splendor of your being.” — Deepak Chopra, author of JESUS and BUDDHA“Beattie has a gift for mixing traditional 12-step thinking with subtle wisdom from her own life to inspire readers to think beyond mainstream consciousness.” — Library Journal“Beattie understands being overboard, which helps her throw bestselling lifelines to those still adrift.” — Time magazine

From the Back Cover

What does it mean to feel at home, truly present with ourselves, comfortable with our choices, and alive to the possibilities of conscious change? How can we develop inner balance and connection, keeping our boundaries clear while opening our hearts to those we love? With practical wisdom and insight, Melody Beattie addresses these questions, encouraging us to reach a higher level of living and loving, and showing us how to be at home with ourselves wherever we are in the world, at whatever stage of life.Through true stories and take-action exercises, including journaling, visualizations, affirmations, meditations, and prayers, Beattie provides the essential tools to help us discover our own sense of home. Accessible and illuminating, Finding Your Way Home is a soul-searching look at how not to be victimized by ourselves′or other people. Beattie urges us to discover new levels of integrity, to break through barriers that have blocked us for too long. This is a powerful and challenging book about buying back our souls and learning to live a life guided by spirit.

About the Author

Melody Beattie is the New York Times bestselling author of Codependent No More, Beyond Codependency, and The Lessons of Love.

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Melody Beattie

Melody Beattie

Melody Beattie is one of America’s most beloved self-help authors and a household name in addiction and recovery circles. Her international bestselling book, Codependent No More, introduced the world to the term “codependency” in 1986. Millions of readers have trusted Melody’s words of wisdom and guidance because she knows firsthand what they’re going through. In her lifetime, she has survived abandonment, kidnapping, sexual abuse, drug and alcohol addiction, divorce, and the death of a child. “Beattie understands being overboard, which helps her throw bestselling lifelines to those still adrift,” said Time Magazine.

Melody was born in St. Paul, Minnesota in 1948. Her father left home when she was a toddler, and she was raised by her mother. She was abducted by a stranger at age four. Although she was rescued the same day, the incident set the tone for a childhood of abuse, and she was sexually abused by a neighbor throughout her youth. Her mother turned a blind eye, just as she had denied the occurrence of abuse in her own past.

“My mother was a classic codependent,” Melody recalls. “If she had a migraine, she wouldn’t take an aspirin because she didn’t do drugs. She believed in suffering.” Unlike her mother, Melody was determined to self-medicate her emotional pain. Beattie began drinking at age 12, was a full-blown alcoholic by age 13, and a junkie by 18, even as she graduated from high school with honors. She ran with a crowd called “The Minnesota Mafia” who robbed pharmacies to get drugs. After several arrests, a judge mandated that she had to “go to treatment for as long as it takes or go to jail.”

Melody continued to score drugs in treatment until a spiritual epiphany transformed her. “I was on the lawn smoking dope when the world turned this purplish color. Everything looked connected—like a Monet painting. It wasn’t a hallucination; it was what the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous calls ‘a spiritual awakening.’ Until then, I’d felt entitled to use drugs. I finally realized that if I put half as much energy into doing the right thing as I had into doing wrong, I could do anything,” Beattie said.

After eight months of treatment, Melody left the hospital clean and sober, ready to take on new goals: helping others get sober, and getting married and having a family of her own. She married a former alcoholic who was also a prominent and respected counselor and had two children with him. Although she had stopped drinking and using drugs, she found herself sinking in despair. She discovered that her husband wasn’t sober; he’d been drinking and lying about it since before their marriage.

During her work with the spouses of addicts at a treatment center, she realized the problems that had led to her alcoholism were still there. Her pain wasn’t about her husband or his drinking; it was about her. There wasn’t a word for codependency yet. While Melody didn’t coin the term codependency, she became passionate about the subject. What was this thing we were doing to ourselves?

Driven into the ground financially by her husband’s alcoholism, Melody turned a life-long passion for writing into a career in journalism, writing about the issues that had consumed her for years. Her 24-year writing career has produced fifteen books published in twenty languages and hundreds of newspaper and magazine articles. She has been a frequent guest on many national television shows, including Oprah. She and her books continue to be featured regularly in national publications including Time, People, and most major periodicals around the world.

Although it almost destroyed her when her twelve-year-old son Shane died in a ski accident in 1991, eventually Melody picked up the pieces of her life again. “I wanted to die, but I kept waking up alive,” she says. She began skydiving, mountain-climbing, and teaching others what she’d learned about grief.

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Reviews

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4.6 out of 5

462 global ratings

Rhonda Renee Marecek

Rhonda Renee Marecek

5

Melody Beattie Author

Reviewed in the United States on January 24, 2023

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I have ordered every book Ms. Beatie has written about co-dependancy. Excellent read. Highly recommended!

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BHeeseman

BHeeseman

5

Very Inspiring and Easy Read - Love this Author!

Reviewed in the United States on March 22, 2017

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All Beattie's books are easy reads and great for "grounding" your life and helping you refocus on what makes you happy and productive. I refer back to them often and really like her approach. I purchased Finding You Way Home, Make Miracles Happen in Forty Days, Choices together. Highly recommend all of them!!!

11 people found this helpful

Lisa Marie

Lisa Marie

5

On your way to search for your soul....

Reviewed in the United States on January 1, 2017

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One of my favorite books of ALL time. I have read a couple by her and this is my ultimate favorite. I recommend this is everyone every where. When I started this book all I did was cry in the bath while reading it. It was my bible, I still have my copy on my bookshelf and when I feel in doubt I turn to a random page. It have ways of soothing your soul. I hope you pick it up and let it help you. I think you will get more out of it than you expect too.

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27 people found this helpful

Heather Y

Heather Y

5

Not a Religious Book - Just Very Inspiring

Reviewed in the United States on July 28, 2022

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I am unsure why/how this book is categorized under Christian literature, but it is not about Jesus Christ or any other religious specific God. It is about spirituality and connecting with your own soul. It's an actual how-to on connecting with your inner-most self. I find this book inspiring and I've had many ah-ha moments even half way in. Melody Beattie is one of my all time favorite authors as her books about codependency have changed my life. And while this book isn't necessarily about codependency recovery, the underlying aspects of codependency are still addressed which I do find to be essential since they can create so much restriction in our lives. Do yourself a favor and buy the book. See for yourself.

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17 people found this helpful

RazzyRN81

RazzyRN81

5

This Book was Written for ME

Reviewed in the United States on November 8, 2014

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What an amazing book! I will write more once I'm done reading the book. So far it has opened my eyes up to why I'm keeping myself in a loveless relationship. I told my bf I wouldn't move in with him until I finish reading the book....now it looks like I will finally be walking away and putting my needs first while filling my soul with meaning to my life.

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