Love Unf*cked

4.6 out of 5

546 global ratings

From the New York Times bestselling author of Unfu*k Yourself comes tough-love that explains what makes relationships work: you taking responsibility to fix yourself.

“Love is patient, love is blind. . .” Until it's not. Then what?

No matter how much advice we get or how much work we do on our “stuff,” nothing ever seems to make the difference. The truth of it is, you’re woefully ill-equipped for one of the most life-defining things you will ever take on—being in a committed relationship.

Whether you’re currently in one, want to be in one, half in–half out, getting over one, married, single, separated, divorced, or just overwhelmed with the whole thing, let’s cut through the morass of relationship schtick and put you back in charge. No flowery BS, no woo-woo strategies, systems, or techniques, just real talk, for real people who want a real relationship in their life that actually works.

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First published June 22, 2022

ISBN 9781399710725


About the authors

Gary John Bishop

Gary John Bishop

Gary John Bishop began his life journey in Glasgow, Scotland. The grit and wit of his early life has contributed to his irreverent, tough-love, in-your-face approach to personal growth. The one-time Senior Program Director to one of the worlds biggest personal and professional development companies, Gary has created the kind of no-frills message that cuts through the fog of people's lives to transform the real issues that consume and anchor them to their self limiting behaviors and beliefs.

As one of the leading Personal Development experts around with a reputation that has impacted millions of people worldwide, his "Urban Philosophy" approach represents a new wave of personal empowerment and life mastery that has caused miraculous results for people in the quality and performance of their lives.

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Reviews

Ben M.

Ben M.

5

Practical and easy to read

Reviewed in the United States on April 7, 2022

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I've always thought I was the problem in my relationships and turns out I was right! While he spends the first several chapters showing all the ways in which you ARE the problem, which I didn't need to be convinced of, he does help me understand how and why I'm the problem. Then he starts moving on to solutions.

This book is a very easy to read way to look hard at ALL your relationships, and what YOU can do to make them better. This isn't a guide to communicate better, or argue better, or give to someone you're having trouble with. This is about how YOU can bring your best to all of YOUR relationships.

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17 people found this helpful

Ski Bum 24

Ski Bum 24

5

Mid-Life Marriage Struggles

Reviewed in the United States on May 1, 2024

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Struggled with marital mid-life struggles by being swallowed up in the day to day life of kids, house, careers, etc. ordered after another in the series of UNFU*K Yourself. Helped bluntly put what Love is and motivations.

4 people found this helpful

Makayla Cotton

Makayla Cotton

5

AMAZING!!

Reviewed in the United States on July 3, 2024

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“Love Unfucked" delves into relationships and love from a straightforward and no-nonsense perspective. blunt approach to discussing common issues in relationships, aiming to strip away romanticized notions and get to the heart of what really works. It challenges conventional relationship advice and encourages people to confront their own attitudes and behaviors that may hinder genuine connection and intimacy. its directness and practicality and gives tools to navigate the complexities of modern relationships with honesty and authenticity.

I loved this book!! It definitely gave me a different perspective on things ❤️

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Me

Me

5

Read this!!

Reviewed in the United States on January 21, 2022

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I am the first to admit that I have some work to do around my romantic relationships. Currently reading Love Unfu*ked. 16 pages in and the arrow has already shot straight through the bullseye This human’s uncanny ability to get directly into my actual world is incredible. I literally have a slow leak in my tire that I have has for years now. Super slowwww. Thank you Gary Bishop for having your life’s work being about me all of us living my most authentic awesome life!! Looking forward to sharing many relationship triumphs with my people! #gobuythisbook #breakonthrough #garyjohnbishop #loveunfucked #uncanny #howdoeshedothat

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10 people found this helpful

Amazon Customer

Amazon Customer

5

It was good.

Reviewed in the United States on August 29, 2024

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I liked it.

Becky Derry

Becky Derry

5

Can't say enough good things!!

Reviewed in the United States on March 26, 2024

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I am a licensed clinical therapist in the US, going on 22 years of practice. Coming across Gary's work has been a game changer for me personally and I'm passing it on to my own patients. I appreciate Gary's no-nonsense, no-bullshit approach to being real with people. He delivers coaching in a way that provokes deep thought, encourages ownership, and includes valid research from well know philosophers and psychologists. I have not come across any other work that has provoked deeper personal reflection, and I have great appreciation for the empowering change process at this stage of my life.

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5 people found this helpful

Kilroy

Kilroy

5

This brings previous titles together

Reviewed in the United States on January 20, 2022

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This book brings all of Gary’s other books together. Even if you’re not in a relationship read this book!!!! It gets you to look down into your core and see what makes you tick. I’m going to go back and reread his previous books again as this one got me to look even deeper and i think I can be better.

7 people found this helpful

jaxxun

jaxxun

5

Plain and EZ communication with real solutions.

Reviewed in the United States on February 15, 2022

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I love the way Gary gets to the heart of the matter; with all relationships. A MUST READ for anyone that has had or wants to have a meaningful and purposed relationship. I have personally embraced and put into practice some of Gary's principles and they flat-out work. If i want to receive love, i have to bring it first...and the rest is beautiful!! Thank you Gary!!!

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3 people found this helpful

T-Bow

T-Bow

4

Great Book, so far.

Reviewed in the United States on January 18, 2023

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I love the book. However, by the time I hit chapter two, it has began falling apart.

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Erin Marie King

Erin Marie King

4

Amazing

Reviewed in the United States on August 14, 2023

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Great book