Dear Lover: A Woman's Guide To Men, Sex, And Love's Deepest BlissAudiobook

Dear Lover changed the way I think about relationships and gave me permission to seek a deeply spiritual connection with another human being. I was always looking for the kind of love that Deida writes about and yet I felt guilty looking for more than 'checked boxes' from my lovers. The kind of love Deida describes is my new barometer for connection and prerequisite reading for my future relationships.

I bought it for a friend after reading The Way Of The Superior Man, this book's companion. She doesn't believe in God and couldn't get past the mention of a higher power, so I guess atheists don't get to benefit from Mr Deida's wisdom. For everyone else, I think he has the best understanding of the male/female dynamic out there.

My friend's other complaint was that the information was too new and too different from what Dr. Phil and everyone else teaches. She said that if the contents of this book were legit then everyone would already know this. That complaint should be an encouragement for every person out there who thinks Dr. Phil is an idiot and is afraid to buy a relationship book for fear that it will contain the same old warmed-over nonsense.

If nothing else, this book contains NEW information, stuff you haven't heard before, stuff I look forward to trying out on the next open-minded woman I meet.

I won't go into a relationship again with a woman who can't grasp this. I think Dr. Phil works for the divorce lawyer's lobby and David Deida is on our side, and since this book is tragically out of print, you can get it cheap and take a chance on finding that one in a million relationship.

Wow, ancient wisdom delivered in a way that the modern man can learn the secrets of sacred sexuality and how to unleash his full potential across all aspects of life. I’ve been studying obscure ancient text on this subject of sacred sexuality and find David to be the foremost expert on bringing the wisdom found and lost in today’s world back using skilled communication to make it easy to understand the secrets of masculine energy that any man can tap into if they have the understanding. Nowhere else can you find such an updated comprehensive guide to some of the worlds most illuminating information that in its self can transform a man, his world and the world at large. Most read if you identify with being masculine.

One of the deepest, most profound books I ever read. I just finished it - it changed my way of seeing myself in a relationship forever and helped me understand that it was ME pushing others away - and not the other way (which I thought most of the time they were doing).

It takes a lot to open up, to truly open up and love with all you have - to go beyond your inner shells, to love yourself so deeply that you inner light can shine into the world - without a doubt.

I am so happy that I read this book - and this is, by the way, one of the books I read through without reading another one next to it. It caught me once and never let me go... of course my ego sometimes said to me: that's not true, the other person has just as much to do with it all - as you have - but in the end, my ego go quieter and quieter and was finally silent, the further I got into this book.

I especially love the letters at the beginning from each chapter.

David Deida has a deep and very beautiful way of writing. I am lucky that I found it - it's one of the best guide books I ever read (and, yes, I am VERY honest: I read many...)