Surrounded by Psychopaths: How to Protect Yourself from Being Manipulated and Exploited in Business (and in Life) [The Surrounded by Idiots Series] by Thomas Erikson - Hardcover
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Surrounded by Psychopaths: How to Protect Yourself from Being Manipulated and Exploited in Business (and in Life) [The Surrounded by Idiots Series]Hardcover

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Part of the bestselling Surrounded by Idiots series!

#1 internationally bestselling author Thomas Erikson shows readers how to identify and avoid the psychopaths around them.

Charming, charismatic, and delightful or manipulative, self-serving, and cunning? Psychopaths are both and that’s exactly what makes them dangerous. Bestselling author of the international phenomenon Surrounded by Idiots, Thomas Erikson reveals how to identify the psychopaths in your life and combat their efforts to control and manipulate.

Using the same simple four-color system of behavior classification that made Surrounded by Idiots so popular, Surrounded by Psychopaths teaches readers how to deal with psychopaths in their lives by becoming aware of their own behavior and their weaknesses. Vivid example stories illustrate ways that psychopaths can take advantage of various behavior types, helping readers identify their own weaknesses and be proactive about protecting themselves. Erikson outlines some of the most common forms of manipulation used by psychopaths―and others―to influence those around them. Since manipulation can often be a feature of ordinary, non-psychopathic relationships, the book also includes practical methods and techniques to help readers confront controlling people and rehabilitate negative relationships into mutually respectful ones.

By understanding your behavior as well as the tendencies and strategies of psychopaths, Surrounded by Psychopaths will teach you to protect yourself from manipulative influence in your workplace, social life, and family.

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ISBN-10

1250816432

ISBN-13

978-1250816436

Print length

272 pages

Language

English

Publisher

St. Martin's Essentials

Publication date

October 04, 2021

Dimensions

5.4 x 0.7 x 8.2 inches

Item weight

2.31 pounds


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“A guidebook for deflecting psychological manipulators. … Bluntly cautionary and applicable advice on the importance of vigilance." ―Kirkus

"This easy-to-read guide will calm fears by arming readers with practical tactics for thwarting a psychopath’s strategies. Adults in the workplace and at home would benefit from Erikson's advice on how to recognize and understand different behaviors, as well as how to recognize red flags in all types of relationships." ―Booklist

About the Author

Thomas Erikson is a Swedish behavioral expert, active lecturer, and bestselling author. For more than twenty years he has been traveling all over Europe delivering lectures and seminars to executives and managers at a wide range of companies, including IKEA, Coca Cola, Microsoft, and Volvo.

Surrounded by Idiots has been a Swedish runaway bestseller since it was first published in 2014. It has sold over 3 million copies worldwide and been translated into 42 languages.


About the authors

Thomas Erikson

Thomas Erikson

Thomas Erikson is a motivator, author and public speaker. His book Surrounded by Idiots is one of the world’s best-selling non-fiction books and has been translated into over 40 languages.

https://www.surroundedbyidiots.com/en/

His way of sharing his knowledge with his readers is by using specific storytelling and lots of humor. To achieve new skills should be easy. Therefore, he do not write in a way that is packed with numbers and details, but rather in a way that will make the reader say: Ah! I recognize that!

Thomas has devoted close to 30 years of his career to helping people communicate with each other, and along the way he´s developed practical and functional tools that facilitate both professional and private life.

Thomas believes in the importance of a higher understanding of others, in order to decrease the number of unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts either in a relationship or at work.

Besides his book he also offer knowledge and understanding of human behaviour by his online courses, and his app Surrounded by idiots. Available both at Appstore and Playstore.

https://www.surroundedbyidiots.com/en/

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Heather j

Heather j

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Fantastic must read

Reviewed in the United States on April 10, 2024

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I bought this book for my 18 year old daughter so she could understand what to look for in people she should avoid For her safety and mental health This book taught me a lot too it is extremely spot on and I believe will help her make better choices in people she hangs around now that she knows the red flags to look for...everyone should read this.

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Reviewed in the United States on March 11, 2024

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My niece asked for this by name and I got it for her birthday. I'm very surprised she lit up as much as she did when she received it so its a hit in my book.

Sarim

Sarim

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Perfect Sequel

Reviewed in the United States on November 18, 2020

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I cannot emphasize enough how much young professionals need to read this. After reading his first book 'Surrounded by Idiots', there was a rapid change in my perspective as i could relate it to almost every single person in my life and I could definitely understand that how a professional who might seem like an idiot is necessary for an efficient team depending on the color they fall under. This book takes it a step further to understand the "phsycopaths" amongst those 4 colors. As the author mentioned that this book is a bit more darker and harsher than his previous one and I definitely agree to that, but let's face it not everything is unicorns and rainbows. Personally, both his books have helped me a lot professionally and I can totally see how some people might find value from this in their personal lives as well. I highly recommend this book for young professionals who have a couple of years of corporate exposure. With all that said, I would not recommend reading this book before the previous one 'Surrounded by Idiots', although the author does a quick recap in the beginning, I felt it would have a stronger impact if the reader is well aware of the 4-color-idiots from his first book.

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sandra Hernández

sandra Hernández

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Very interesting books

Reviewed in the United States on March 16, 2024

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Quality is great. Book itself is very interesting. Already half way through and eager to find out more.

Lernir

Lernir

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Initial random reading looks like useful information

Reviewed in the United States on September 27, 2021

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Reading last two chapters in which are some main points, reading about author, reading various of the chapters within for starters--only starters for now-- seems book will be of value for those uninformed about the disc system and about how a psychopath is correctly defined for now and how to avoid being mistaken for one by others. For now notes on self defense echo most advice one finds in various places about aimng to leave and do it safely if at all possible when dealing with one or more such individals in any sphere of life. Author gives reasons why it's important. This reveiw may or may not be reconsidered later.

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